Monday, December 9, 2013

November 2013 Newsletter

The Grand Rapids Friends Monthly Meeting meets for worship at the Browne Center,
On the campus of Aquinas College, 2001 Robinson Rd. SE, Grand Rapids,
At 10:30 a.m. on First Days (Sundays).
Following Meeting for Worship each month:
First First Day: Potluck Lunch
Second First Day: Meeting for Worship with Attention to Business
Third First Day: Program
Fourth First Day: Singing. Advancement and Ministry and Nurture Committees meet at 9:00 a.m.

LEYM ADVICES AND QUERIES: SELF-DISCIPLINE

Simplicity, beauty, and happiness go together if they are a by-product of a concern for something more important than ourselves.--Elise Boulding, My part in the Quaker adventure, p. 21.

Do we center our lives in the awareness of the presence of God so that all things take their rightful place? What most distracts us from God? What are we ready to release so that we can give our attention to what matters most?

Do we regard our possessions as given to us in trust? How freely do we part with them to meet the needs of others? How do we manage our commitments so that over-commitment, worry, and stress do not diminish our integrity?

Do we keep to moderation and simplicity in our daily lives? To what extent do we allow prevailing culture and media to pressure us into buying what we do not need, more than we need, or more than we can afford? How do we recognize when we have enough? Are we mindful to encourage our children toward these values?

LEYM’s Advices & Queries, for Use by Individual Friends, Meetings, and Worship Groups is available online

Other Friends Meetings in Our Area

  • Holland Friends Meeting For information, please contact Greg Murray at 616-994-7282
  • Fremont Worship Group For information, please contact Theresa Lindsay 
  • Manitou Worship Group For information, please contact Doris Loll at 231-882-7062. 
  • Pine River Worship Group For information, please contact Don Nagler    


November—December Greeters (subject to change) 

  • November 3: Gerard and Judi 
  • November 10: Walt Marston 
  • November 17: Robert Maluchnik 
  • November 24: Gerard and Judi 
  • December 1: Holadays 
  • December 8: Rangers 
  • December 15: Walt Marston 
  • December 22: Robert Maluchnik 
  • December 29: Gerard and Judi

December 2013 Newsletter

LEYM ADVICES AND QUERIES: SIMPLICITY

Simplicity, beauty, and happiness go together if they are a by-product of a concern for something more important than ourselves.
    Elise Boulding, My Part in the Quaker Adventure, p. 21.

Do we center our lives in the awareness of the presence of God so that all things take their rightful place? What most distracts us from God? What are we ready to release so that we can give our attention to what matters most? 

Do we regard our possessions as given to us in trust? How freely do we part with them to meet the needs of others? How do we manage our commitments so that over-commitment, worry, and stress do not diminish our integrity?

Do we keep to moderation and simplicity in our daily lives? To what extent do we allow prevailing culture and media to pressure us into buying what we do not need, more than we need, or more than we can afford?  How do we recognize when we have enough? Are we mindful to encourage our children toward these values?

LEYM’s Advices & Queries, for Use by Individual Friends, Meetings, and Worship Groups is available online 


December-January Greeters (subject to change)
  • December 1:                         Holadays
  • December 8:                         Rangers
  • December 15:                       Walt Marston
  • December 22:                       Robert Maluchnik
  • December 29:                       Gerard and Judi
  • January 5:                               Rangers
  • January 12:                            Walt Marston
  • January 19:                            Robert Maluchnik
  • January 26:                            Gerard and Judi

On the Calendar
  • Dec. 15: HOPEGrows, a United Methodist group teaching youth gardening skills, hosts a neighborhood community celebration from 5:30-8:00 p.m. at La Nueva Esperanza/Hope Center, 1933 Buchanan, Grand Rapids. Craft activities and Christmas singing. Doors open at 5:30, dinner served at 6:00 p.m.. Volunteers are needed to help serve, decorate and clean up. Spanish speakers are especially encouraged to volunteer! Contact Charlie Snedeker (616-706-0903 or  chariliesnedeker@gmail.com).
  • Dec. 22: Worship in the manner of Friends will be gathered at the Bradley Indian Mission, 695 128th Ave., Shelbyville, MI, at 6:00 p.m. A potluck dinner follows.
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From the Wider World of Quakerism: Passion without Apologies 
Ed. note: From time to time I receive emails from emergency room physician and Quaker Brad Cotton, who lives in Circleville, Ohio. A version of this letter he wrote appeared in the Circleville Herald on 23 Oct 2013.

I love to engage the crowd Saturday afternoons standing just outside the Democratic Party booth at the Pumpkin Show. I was prepared to discuss the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act (PPACA), seeing as Pres. Obama and congressional Democrats had finally, finally shown some much-needed moxie and stood firm against the Republicans.
  
One self-identified Republican visited our booth, coming in out of the cold rain. He asked for me by name, then told me I perhaps was “too passionate” about health care reform. I’m too passionate?! About advocating for patients who die, suffer, and are ruined financially in our current market based system?

I asked my visitor what he was passionate about, passionate enough to deny real folks real care while costing the nation $24 billion in the Republicans’ Custer’s Last Stand shutdown? Reaganesque trickle-down free-market theory maybe? That has redistributed our nation’s wealth upwards for 30 years, leaving more and more of us impoverished and powerless.

All political questions are in fact moral questions. The question I asked my visitor was, do we continue to allow people to suffer and die in our nation because their job does not provide health insurance? If the answer is, “Let ‘em die!” as the crowd shouted at a Republican 2012 presidential debate, then I am ashamed of my country. The PPACA is deeply flawed—it amounts to giving taxpayer dollars to middlemen health insurers—but it is the best reform the realpolitik in the US would allow. Real efficiency and compassion would have been single payer Medicare for all.

Every time I talk to a Republican the theme of “makers and takers” comes out. Like other Republicans I’ve talked to, my visitor voiced his deeply held belief that a bunch of useless and undeserving lazy folks are living parasitically off the labors of their betters. I admitted it does Continued from p. 2

happen. There are indeed folks who do not contribute meaningfully to society. How do we motivate them without harming innocents? How do we reach their brokenness?

 “Useless takers” are not what I see in the emergency department. I see folks working two jobs, stretching every dollar, going without care, suffering and dying because they don’t have health insurance. I invited my Republican visitor, as we continued to talk, to come with me to the ER and look into the eyes of those his politics would condemn, and tell them why they must be sacrificed on the altar of health insurers’ profits and small government.

We need just as big a government as it takes to insure liberty and true justice for all. That means we pay for health care, education, Social Security first, right off the top. Then, once these essential and moral functions of human society are taken care of, and only then, we can have luxuries like tax cuts for those who need them least.

The market may decide who has a bigger flat screen TV and who drives a bigger Hummer. The market must not decide under any circumstances who lives and who dies, who has truly equal access to education and truly equal opportunities.

I make no apologies about passionately working for this, the real American Dream.

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Repairing Christianity’s Damaged Brand
Ed. note: A version of this essay by Sally Steenland, director of The Faith and Progressive Policy Initiative, Center for American Progress, appeared online on the Center’s website on 4 Dec. 2013. 

One of the saddest and most damaging consequences of the Religious Right's grip on partisan power over the past three decades has been the tarnishing of Christianity.
Since the 1980s, this organized political force of extremely conservative Christians has inserted its theological views into federal and state laws and attempted to impose its doctrines on a diverse, pluralistic nation. Leaders in the Religious Right have partnered with conservatives in the Republican Party to oppose LGBT equality, women's reproductive health and rights, the teaching of evolution in schools, government safety net programs for the poor, and more.
In the process, the Religious Right has grabbed the media microphone and claimed Christianity all for itself. As a result many people, especially those who are younger, now equate Christianity with intolerance, bigotry, anti-intellectualism, exclusion, rigidity, stinginess and lack of compassion.
But a more inclusive and generous brand of Christianity is increasingly making itself known, a Christianity that goes back to Jesus and threads its way through history. This prophetic, justice-minded Christianity has a proud tradition of standing up for abolition, civil rights, the poor and vulnerable, peace and equality. It is invitational rather than exclusive, communal rather than individualistic, and compassionate rather than harsh.
Those who follow it are dedicating their lives to a wide range of justice issues. They’re joining with immigration activists to bring attention to the suffering of undocumented immigrants and the urgent need to pass immigration reform legislation. They’re speaking out against the tragedy of urban violence and advocating for commonsense measures to reduce gun violence. They’re fighting for Americans struggling to survive because slashed funding for nutrition assistance and other programs has reduced or eliminated help for millions of our children, low-wage workers, the elderly and the disabled.
Such faith leaders are urging America to live up to its calling and core identity.

Many of those working on these issues say they sense new energy around their efforts as the Religious Right loses its grip on the public imagination and conscience. The Right’s harsh brand of Christianity, with its devil's pact with free-market fundamentalism, has ruined lives and shattered livelihoods long enough. What's more, its judgmental rhetoric starves the soul.
Change happens when collective urges and values find public expression and action. Many have noticed how Pope Francis, in office less than a year, has urged the church to be more compassionate and welcoming, cautioning it against exclusion and judgment. The pope has called for connection with the people—for a church that is "bruised, hurting and dirty because it has been out on the streets, rather than a church which is unhealthy from being confined and from clinging to its own security."
To me, and I'm sure to many others, those words are nourishment for a hungry soul.

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The Grand Rapids Friends' Newsletter is edited and compiled by Mike Holaday, convener of Advancement. Thank you, Friend!